August 4, 2011
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Sex: Are you Sorry?!
Sex, a topic I am overly familiar with, and one that has been apparently trending on here the past couple of posts I've seen. As obvious as it may be, this generation has slowly converted into a sexually addicted one. I am not saying I am totally against sex, but people have become more and more like nymphomaniacs. Sites where you are to meet people now turned into sites so everyone can hook up. Facebook, especially in the gay community, has turned into a sex show. Everyone is having shirtless pictures, and adding people not for the sole purpose of possibly making a friend or relationship ( or something along those lines ) but, to simply sleep with these men and women because they expose themselves on a daily basis (making themselves seem easy, which they usually are).
I used to talk about sex constantly, and I still do from time to time jokingly, but I don't act upon it as constant as everyone else does. Infidelity and promiscuity has increased severely the past couple of years, from simple talk to pure action. I get it, sex is great, I agree; but now there is even apps on Iphones, android phones, etc to meet guys and have sex with each other. I find them really curious to use, and read all the nonsense people say to just simply bust that nut with the use of sex, rather than masturbation. I have urges just like everyone else, but I can control mine. WILL POWER PEOPLE!!
I also believe that people lately have been using sex as a means of proving they still "got the goods" aswell as the reason why they expose themselves in pictures and so forth. I know this is very contradicting for people who know me because I'll say "damn!" or something like that; however, I'll say things like that but while I say one simple thing that yes, they do look good with their shirt off, while everyone else is trying to say all these sexual comments towards these people. The more "masculine" or "sexy" u look has now turned into the main focus of what everyone wants in a relationship, intellect and personality mean nothing. No wonder why all these people really never have lasting relationships, because if it is based solely on sex, and the sex isn't good, guess what? The relationship ends, you never really loved them, and know nothing of what love is.
So SEX: ARE YOU SORRY? because I feel sorry for you. lol =]
I actually found this video a day ago, has nothing to do with sex but I found it very entertaining to watch. It's footage from Madonnas Concert as you'll tell, but the point she tries to get across is very inspiring, I suppose. ARE YOU LISTENING?
This song is by Porcelain Black and it's called Who's Next. I like this song, I am very open to different genres of music, I hope you are too =] Plus, Sounds like a song u can slutatiously dance to which fits into my theme nicely lmao.
Comments (7)
Love the Madonna song, good post, your pretty smart for a young whipper snapper!
That's dating in a recession for you. I assure you the same is happening in every part of the dating world. You just have to be watchful for red flags, myself, I can't stand women whose main ambition is to become a housewife and get taken care of the rest of their lives, while having lots of babies. Rather than having meaningless, regrettable sex, sometimes it's just better to take matters in one's own hands, or mouth.
"happiness lies in your own hands. it took me way too long to understand how it could be."
so true. two years ago, as I was discovering that fact on my own, this song played again and I really heard it. and I fell in love with this song , it is so true.
lately I have been feeling pretty desperate myself because of my superstrong willpower. yet, you writing that it's only so you don't have to masturbate, really made me feel proud that I stand up for integrity for so long.
the young generation is raised on the look at me, and lack self worth/self esteem or need that constant sexual glance to feel better about themselfs. I see it all the time. Tweens, Teens, Young Adults posting half nakked photos to get people to notice them because when they were children there household required a 2 income so the focus of the parents were on jobs and money and not on kids.....Kids lacked attention so now those kids grew up and now are young adults and use there bodies to gain attention from the public. Even stores promote if you got it flaunt it.
As far as sex, alot of people got burnt in relationships so they'd rather hook up then when the feelings kick in they cant handle it because of reasons I stated above- 2 income household no bonding no love no hugging from the parents towards children.
I briefly ventured into the dating world last year as my marriage was put on hiatus. UGH! If all else fails, dating again would be a motivation to stay married. I wouldn't even respond to emails from guys on dating sites that had pictures they took of themselves in a bathroom mirror with a shirt off. It's like "look at me, this is all I have to offer."
In advance, sorry for not replying to everyone's comments earlier, it's not something I like to do, feels rude. @DominatingThinspo - Why thank you very much! I actually loved that Madonna song, I had to share it lol.
@how2saveaplanet - I agree with you, I know it's happening all over the world, but here it seems like the world is getting smaller and smaller since everyone is so promiscuous you can't really find anyone who hasn't slept with everyone these days.
@stickerprice - I'm glad you stand up for your integrity! good for you! and what song is that quote from?
@pocketfullofsunshines - I can understand why they grew up to constantly need attention since they did not receive it at home, but I lived a similar life (well not completely similar to theirs but close enough) and I never required attention like that from people. People have lost touch with what's really important and just look for the quick fix. It's very unfortunate.
@spicycajun - Well, I am sorry to hear that your marriage was put on hiatus. I agree, that's what comes off from those pictures. No intellect just Physical, it's not very appealing when you prefer intellect and physical the "plus."
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