August 24, 2011
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¿Love & Honesty?
I decided to take @FalconBridge 's suggestion and I'm starting with the music first so you can listen to it while you read the blog. I chose a more easy listening song, like the Anoraak song it's a midnight cruising kind of song it's "Voyager" By Daft Punk Enjoy =] ( Unlike the Anoraak song this has no lyrics).
We've all been there and are probably there right now, trying to find love and honesty at the same time. Never really goes the way we plan it to for the most part. Although I did put these two subjects together and they will go hand in hand, I am going to discuss them seperately, from my personal point of view.
I've lately been at a crossroads with honesty and love in particular. It's hard for me to admit to someone I like them let alone love them or have love like feelings towards them. Unlike the majority of the population that has a very vain perspective on what love really is, I tend to look for more of a personality and do my best to look past imperfections. I will say I am picky to an extent I do not let small imperfections blurr that real persons beauty physically and intellectually. I've had many male suitors but none the less I always go back to wanting the one person I know I cannot have, or does not want to pursue a relationship with me. It's very difficult to understand the workings of my mind and try to realize why I'm so infatuated with this person? ( I don't want to give out any names). I've tried many times to get over this enthralling person and never the less, my efforts always end up in vain. It seems like I can't be honest with him and really let him know how I feel because I know the answer and yet on the inside I let myself think that their is a possibility of something there because of past events that have happened, which is a possibility of why I feel so subconsciously persistent with subliminally pursuing this person. The world many never know lol.
On a different note, it's also come to my attention that people want and desire honesty, myself included; but how honest is too honest? We all claim we want people to be honest with us but when they are somethings were better left unsaid, or even better off being a lie all together. Determining to pursue friendships that are 100% honest never really work, if someone told u that they slept with your boyfriend, you wont automatically be "thanks for being honest with me" and let it slide. So to sum it up as I previously stated ... how honest is too honest?
"What is something that you'll never live down?" - Xanga
Honestly something I know that I will never live down is all the drunken moments I've had with people around me, it's funny to remenise on them but sometimes people take reminding you of how you acted can be taken too far and ends up hitting a nerve when they dont realize they are
Going with vanity I would like to share this old video called "Doll Face" portraying a single face seeking perfection at any cost (my view on it) I'm sure some have seen this before, if not then I hope you find it interesting.
Can't wait to read your updates and comment
-Armando Lush
"Dare To Be Different!!"
Comments (5)
It's not that you can be too honest, it is in the delivery. You can tell your friend that you slept with their s.o., but have a little tact in telling them. If you value the friendship at all, it is better to have this out in the open. Which one has to wonder the circumstances that caused the s.o. to become so entangled, but not telling them this at all is pretty shitty.
This is why I like your blog it is original not a copy cat like many. I can say my view on Love is definitely original or at least a very minority view. Do you have a resource that can show me how to trim my brow's myself???
crazzy i just wrote about the same basic things love and honesty but not like you did lol! you do it better! true story and amen to that!
It was nice having the music playing while reading.
I believe in honesty. There may have been times Walter, my husband, has upset me, but our relationship shifts and grows and we continue to adapt. I'd rather know that something I did made him unhappy so I can change the behavior. Just as I want him to know because if he doesn't know how can he know to change it. Or figure out a way to work it so we're both happy.
At the very least, with the person of your interest, if you got together one on one for an indepth conversation you could let it all out. Then let your interest talk too. Listen and talk and figure it out. Worse comes to worst at least you'll know and nolonger have the "possibility" haunting you.
I loved the video!
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