September 7, 2011
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Shallow & Shameless
Today's song is by Penguine Prison titled "The Worse it Gets" (The Starsmith Remix)
**WARNING!!! the begining starts off slightly louder than the rest of the song** 
We've all either been accused of being shallow or conceited at some point in our lives. It's something that has bothered me for quite some time. I honestly can say that I do look beyond "imperfections" and focus more on personality, that's why when i like someoneone it's hard to dislike them. Once I like the person they are, their looks can change but their personality is the same and thats what I end up continuing being attracted to.
People always focus on the outer, someone can be completely gorgeous but have the UGLIEST personality. Some realize that their "beauty" sugar coated the ugliness they are within and move on from pursuing that person, but end up going after someone similar.
So how shallow is too shallow? is their anything as some what shallow? Where do we draw the line of shallow to prejudice? is their a right time to be shallow ?
Most people look for something similar to them, if not "better" than they are. Majority have some prejudice towards what kind of person they date. They have to be mexican, or they have to look gangster, or they have to be straight acting, or she has to have huge boobs, or he // she cannot be fatter than I am. It's very sad that people do not give others the time of day and are missing out on possibly finding someone great or even their "soul mate." I've seen plenty of conceited people live miserable lives only because they look for the same "beauty" but that same "beauty" is looking for a different beauty and they are not the ugly others do not want to pursue, but they are still HOT enough to go after them, and continue to be miserable. SO SAD. Open your eyes, and you will find happyness, stay in the dark and you'll never have the light needed to find what you are looking for. =]
I GOT BANGS!! lol I cut them myself, what u think? too much??
This movie I actually watched last night, and I thought it was completely amazing. it is called "Speak" with Kristen Stewart from twilight, one of her earlier films I'm going to assume, you can watch it below by clicking the "click here" text below the movie poster image. It's free to watch and you dont need to sign up for anything just in case you're wondering. OR RENT IT if u'd like
Cant wait to read all your updates =]
"Dare To Be Different!"
- Armando Lush
Comments (16)
I was worried when you said that you were going to cut your beautiful hair but it still looks great. ;p
@DaKingfish - aww thanks =] I'm glad you liked it, I was scared of cutting it myself but I did a pretty good job =]
:O Your hair looks good! You did a great job on the bangs. :]
To me, being shallow tells me that the person things TOO highly of themselves, puts other people down to make themselves look better, that sorta thing.You're right about the example you gave, where people won't give "uglier" ones the time of day because they have a far worse imperfection than them.
But it's a different thing when people are CONFIDENT in themselves.
Like with me, I actually do think I'm pretty. It's just an opinion of myself and I'm not comparing my outer beauty to those who are physically "ugly" just to make myself feel like I'm pretty. A lot of people take confidence as being shallow. :/
And I LOVED that movie! I read the book first, though, and then decided to see the movie. I think the book is better.
@fightingXstronger - That's how I am I do also think I am pretty, and never shove down peoples throat words like "I'm hot" etc etc. Confidence is fine, Shallow & Conceitedness are two things I cannot stand very much lol =]
bahhhh your so pretty! I always wanted bangs like that but i can't = (
I loveeeed speak. Both the book and the movie. It's a role that fits her perfectly. I was bawling by the end of the movie
@deemure - aww thank you so much =]. I was really scared to cut my hair lol. But my nieces both look like me and they look super cute with bangs so I said why not and my hair yesterday at like midnight lol. why cant you get bangs like that? Yeah the ending did get me all sad, but I loved that her mom wasn't making her tell her anything or drowning her with hugs and everything.
I'm black and my hair is natural so it looks like a afro now. Relaxers were destroying my hair but I do miss it sometimes. Speak and Seven Pounds are probably the only two movies that make me cry.
Well, I think you're HOT!
The topic kinda reminds me of this woman where I worked before I retired. She was the big boss' executive secretary. She was past middle age and always dressed in suits from a custom tailor in town. Hair piled up on top of her head, 4" heels the works. But I noticed that the only women that she would socialize with were the dowdy, frumpy ones. Hmm. Fragile ego, perhaps?
Sorry, didn't listen to the song. I didn't meet my husband he met me because I disliked everyone!
In the photos I think you look kind of anime-ish. Also I've read the book Speak. I didn't know it was a movie until one day I saw it on the tv listing and was like ??? then found out it was a movie. It is very good.
Who is that gorgeous girl? Talk to me woman!
I get over looked all the time, I got a hot body but a ugly smile and face so people dont give me a time a day to get to know my personality. Becausee I have a hot body it gets used to get to the heart but when the sex stops and they have to get to know me they dont know how and use excuses to move on.....
I would love to find a person who loves me instead of the body/sex.
I like your bangs. They frame your face and eyes.
Cute. I'm looong overdue for a hair cute. :/
i like your bangs.
and we're all shallow in our own ways. for me, it's not looks I dwell on, but smarts.
i've gotten better though. i much rather have someone who's kind/sweet than someone who's callous and brilliant.
I love those bangs! Again I am green with envy! *shakes fist*
im jealous of your hair! its super cute
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